Friendship is a relation between friends. And it is one of the most beautiful feelings. Nobody really knows why do people try to find a true friend. There can be few reasons: they want to have a person who is similar to them, whose hobbies are the same, they want to have somebody to trust, to have a shoulder to cry, and, lastly, they just want to communicate with outside world, but not all of the people are worth to be called friends.
First of all, all our life we are searching for somebody who have same interests like we do. Of course, it is really hard. Some times we feel that we have to be friends with somebody we do not like just becouse we have same interests. and it is wrong to think that it is normal. We should choose friends for what they are, not for what they like. Because those interests can easily be placed by other hobbies, and all friendships will be gone.
Secondly, a real friend is most needed when people needs a shoulder to cry, a person who can listen to them, sorry for them, talk to them. 'A friend in need is a friend indeed'. I agree with this quotation, because it is true, that real friends should not only be with you when everything is good, but also when something is wrong. They should help you. That is why we need friends.
Final reason why we need friends is because we just want somebody to talk. Our comunity is build up using comunication, because we would be very bored, sad and lonely without anybody to talk. But not everyone who talk to us can be called friend. Some friend are just for entertainment: when you are bored or have nothing to do. but just real friend are the ones, wich do not need any words, they know you so well, that understands you even without words.
So, I think, our society is build up from variety of relationships: family, friends, employers-employees relationships and etc. The only important thing is that we need those relations, and we need to separate them one from another. Real friends helps to develop our sence of humour, ability to communicate, to feel responsable. We need friends if we want to live full life.
Generally, I agree with the things you have said. But I don't think, that friendship is a feeling, maybe I am not right.
ReplyDeleteI think you are right by saying that real friendship will survive all those thick and thin's. And they will support and help each other no mater what.
ReplyDeleteI noticed in your essay that you emphasize two things: to listen and to talk. I totally agree with this opinion, because it is very important to create a tie between friends by talking and listening to each other.
ReplyDeleteWhen I've read your essay, I was thinking about this sentence:"Nobody really knows why do people try to find a true friend. There can be few reasons: they want to have a person who is similar to them, whose hobbies are the same, they want to have somebody to trust, to have a shoulder to cry, and, lastly, they just want to communicate with outside world, but not all of the people are worth to be called friends." - I don't want to say that it is not correct. I just want to add something. I think that there absolutely is a person somewhere in the world which is alone.And in order to avoid this loneliness he/she just wants to have someone who could be near him/her.What I wanted to say is that it is one more resaon why people want to have friends. But that is only my opinion ;)
ReplyDeleteI agree with your statement that we are searching for the person, who has the same interests.
ReplyDeleteYes, every person needs a true friend, if he want to live a fulfilled life:)
Kotryna, I agree with you that communication is very important thing in relationship, because people are not created to be lonely.
ReplyDeleteI agree that we need friends to live full life because I can't see any point of lonely life.
ReplyDeleteYou ought to improve more in tenses. Still , I liked it :)
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